I received a call from another attorney, who is out of state, with questions about Parental Alienation. He has a case in which he represents a targeted parent, in this case a Mom who, despite having sole cusody of her child, has now seen the child refuse to visit with…
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Illinois Parental Alienation Issues
On the heels of a trial last week involving a longstanding campaign of parental alienation, in which my client was seeking reunification therapy so that his child would be treated, and counseled, to learn to want to have a relationship with her targeted father again. I see more and more…
Kane County Divorce: Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Why Are Narcissists Prone to Being Abusive?
One of the most difficult things to understand in life is how someone who professes to love you can then go on to abuse you. Many people feel traumatized and confused after a relationship with an abusive Narcissistic partner ends. They wonder: “We were so in love, yet he went from telling me that…
Will County Divorce: We Clarified Illinois Law on Retained Earnings
My law practice has been distinguished over the years by being a prominent advocate for parents and children, especially when there are complex and difficult clinical issues involved in child custody matters. Having been a member of the American Psychological Association for over 15 years and following the seminars and…
Kane County Divorce Lawyer : Six reasons It’s Easy to be Trapped by a Narcissist
In my practice, I have had the pleasure of representing many, many good and caring people. Many of these good people end up being entrapped into a relationship with a narcissist. This is part of the paradox: why do so many good and caring people end up in marriages with such…
Illinois Divorce Lawyer: Narcissists and Divorce
Here’s a post from a perusal off of social media and high conflict divorce. This exchange may resonate with a lot of people: I need help. I have been married for 13 years. We have two wonderful sons. My husband had an affair that ended about 5 years ago. The…
Illinois Divorce: Resiliency and the “Truth Bomb Mom”
From Kristina Kuzmic: ” Some stories I share with you feel more personal than others. Some stories I’m really protective of because of the impact they’ve had on my life, and in turn, on the lives of my children. This is one of those stories. Ever since I opened up about…
DuPage Divorce Lawyer: Sharing Parenting with a Poor Parent
From time to time, interesting questions are posted on some forums that discuss divorce, and especially divorce when dealing with soon-to-be ex spouses, and ex-spouses, that are poor parents, or a persons with pathologies like narcissism. Here is one recent question posed by a parent, with some suggestions: 3am my 4…
Illinois Divorce: Mothers and PAS
Today is Mother’s Day, and aside from wishing all of our Moms a wonderful day, I wanted to point out as well that parental alienation exists with mothers as targets. More often than one might think. Today, a Mom posted this: ” And please don’t ever give up……There were three…
Divorce and BPD: Traits of Anger in Borderline Personalities
Representing many clients through the past 20+ years in relationships with people with borderline traits, it is helpful to see new artciles that discuss the experiences of people in these relationships. Here, a discussion about the triggering on anger in borderlines, many times without an apparent reason. I’d say from…