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Illinois Divorce: Narcissists: New Blog, Great Advice

Many clients that come to my office have issues with a spouse with traits of a personality disorder. These traits create many challenges for the relationship, and the family, and in the context of divorce, the case can end up being what is called a “high conflict case.” For many years, I have focused my practice, in part, on these cases involving psychological issues as well as high conflict cases.  Rarely do I find a good, understandable explanation in the public domain of what a narcissistic personality is, how they present, and the impacts that these traits and disorders have on family members.  This podcast that I found today is excellent.

” Today we have the pleasure of speaking with a true expert on many of the topics we’ve exploring during our series on “Who Am I?”, including borderline personality disorder, sociopathy, and narcissism: Dr. Ramani Durvasula.

Dr. Ramani is a licensed clinical psychologist, author, and expert on the impact of toxic narcissism.  She is a Professor of Psychology at California State University, Los Angeles, and also a Visiting Professor at the University of Johannesburg.

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She has been featured on, and even hosted, programing on Bravo, the Lifetime Network, National Geographic, the History Channel, and Oxygen. And she’s also been a featured commentator on nearly every major television network, as well as radio, print, and internet media.

She is the author of Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship With a Narcissistand her new book, DON’T YOU KNOW WHO I AM? How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement and Incivility will be coming out October 1st.

Today we explored a range of topics with Dr. Ramani including:

  • What distinguishes true NPD from someone just “being a jerk.”
  • Techniques for interacting with “10% narcissists” more effectively.
  • The importance of drawing clear boundaries.
  • The different places narcissism can come from, and the different ways we can interact with different kinds of narcissists.
  • Working with narcissism inside of our cultural framework.”

 

Being Well Podcast: How to Deal with a Narcissist with Ramani Durvasula