Experienced divorce practitioners have come to develop ideas about certain issues or triggers that can cause the contested divorce process to spiral into chaos or high costs. I have my own ideas about these triggers, one of them involving the parties believing that more negative conflict and more “bomb throwing”…
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DuPage Divorce: Parental Alienation / Estrangement
No parent wants to imagine a day when your child would refuse to speak to you. But estrangements between parents and adult children may be more common than you think. One expert calls it a “silent epidemic.” Click here to watch the video.
Kane County Divorce Lawyer: Are Fathers Important?
A Father posted this photo from his Son. If anyone wonders why Illinois needs statutory presumptive shared parenting, or why competent and loving Fathers are necessary to the daily lives of their children, this picture tells a thousand words:
Kane County Divorce Lawyer: Co-Parenting
Tips to co-parenting after divorce Byline: Our Family Wizard Software After a divorce, the idea of communicating with an ex may seem near to impossible. While dealing with that person is the last thing you feel like doing, trying to build an amicable relationship with that person is the best…
DuPage Divorce Lawyer: The 5 Mistakes Divorcing Parents Make
byline: Dr. Jeff Gardere: Divorce can be one of the most stressful events in life, second only to a spouse dying. In fact, a divorce can become such a complicated and nasty affair that many people have joked that a spouse dying is a less stressful event because at least…
Kane County Divorce: Fathers Seek Shared Parenting Statute
Sydney Morehouse, 13, of Omaha cries in Lincoln, Neb., Wednesday, Feb. 6, 2013, as she tells the Associated Press how hard it is to only get to see her father every other weekend and Wednesday nights following her parent’s divorce. Omaha resident Gary Owens pounded the table and raised his…
Leslie Morgan Steiner: Why domestic violence victims don’t leave
DuPage Divorce Lawyer: Divorce Mediation
Post holiday stresses can lead to divorces being initiated in the New Year. Unfortunately, for many couples that means planning separate lives. Lawyers even refer to the first working day in January as “Divorce Day” because so many people begin legal proceedings to end their marriages at this time, but…
Kane County Divorce Lawyer: Childrens Rights Council weighs in on ‘Parentectomies’
Childrensrightscouncil Illinois In fact, according to university researcher Dr. Emily Douglas, in “Mending Broken Families: social policies for divorced families”, the overwhelming majority of divorcing fathers have wanted at least equal parenting time with their children, or sole custody — and this has been consistent since the first surveys were…
DuPage Divorce Lawyer: Parental Alienation – A Corrosive Legacy
Parental Alienation – A Corrosive Legacy By Judge Michele Lowrance I have been a judge on the divorce bench for 16 years, and have watched the wreckage of the corrosive legacy of parental alienation and visitation interference play out over decades. We have no statistics for measuring this group, because…